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Relationship Readiness Quiz for Singles
   
To assess your rediness for a committed relationship, rate yourself in each of the following ten areas. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. We recommend asking close friends and family members for their opionions as well.
   
Rating Scale: Good: This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship
  OK: This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship
  Needs Work: This area could interfere with the sucess of my next relationship
   
   
Self-Rating
     
1. I know what I want
Needs Work
OK
Good
  I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated.

     
2. I know my requirements  
  I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me.

     
3. I am happy and successful being single  
  I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a out of desperation and need.

     
4. I am ready and available for commitment  
  I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule commitments and lifestyle allow my availablity to build a new relationship.

     
5. I am satisfied with my work/career  
  My work is fulfiling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.

     
6. I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit  
  My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.

     
7. My financial and legal business is handled  
  I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

     
8. My family relationships are functional  
  My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.

     
9. I have effective dating skills  
  I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.

     
10. I have effective relationship skills  
  I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.